Not raising your voice and inaction are mostly considered negative actions without defining the context Today, we are discussing “Why Not Voicing and Inaction is Powerful and Makes More Sense at Times?”
When someone tries to throw blame or say something we don’t like or feel correct! To prove our honesty or justify our thoughts, we think we should raise our voice and reply whether they accept it or not, without worrying about what mindset they are in?
People around us motivate us by telling us that we should voice our opinions and reply without understanding the situation or whether the other person is in a position to listen or not.
Voicing or reacting to a situation or particular person is good, but not always.
Here, “Not giving a reply doesn’t mean we are cowards or do not have the capability? ”
Most of our societal learning so far teaches us only to react and voice our opinions, regardless of the situation! This is why most relationships are broken, and lives are also lost!
What is the point of voicing in front of a fool when he is working hard to justify himself?
We should speak up, but I think sometimes inaction or not responding is the best action, which gives us an opportunity to maintain inner peace and assess the overall situation.
When you act and voice in a space you aren’t supposed to, this will worsen the situation, and not voicing your voice becomes noise!!
Just because someone questions your inability to respond doesn’t mean you are ineffective. To be called wise, one should know when to act or voice and when one shouldn’t… What is the point of voicing in front of a fool? Doing so, you also become a fool!
Try to understand that you are not here to prove to somebody what you can, as your life is to make meaning out of time gifted to you. So don’t waste time voicing to prove you are right! It’s not your duty to keep proving to everyone about what you are! Do the right thing instead of directing your efforts to prove you are right! Remember the fact that “your actions speak more than your words.”
In an attempt to prove your majesty, you are losing yourself, and you are failing to hear your inner voice, and rather, all the time, you only let someone’s voice control your thoughts and reactions. Don’t let someone control your thoughts! If you are allowing it, it means you don’t have control over yourselves, and you are a slave to your surroundings, which are controlling you.
My dear friends, What is so fun about being a slave?
Listening and Learning from others is good, but not raising one’s voice in a place it doesn’t need or to people who aren’t eligible for it. In these cases, not voicing or inaction is the best action. Most relationships break because they don’t understand this. Irrational actions and voicing only lead to destruction, pain, and suffering for others and for ourselves.
Let’s PRACTICE HOW TO STAY, NOT VOICING AND INACTION, OR in simple WITHDRAWAL. Withdrawal with awareness is a sign of wisdom One needs to practice this, it is not easy as it appear! You have to train your mind; it’s not that you withdraw physically and in thoughts. You are still reacting and voicing a situation! This might sound spiritual as most monks introspect and practice throughout their lives about withdrawal, not voicing unnecessarily. But remember, it helps.
Untimely action always leads to destruction, no matter how good it might be. Just remember this point! Here, I don’t mean you should voice or act, but know the situation and the person’s state of mind. Every word we speak has immense power, and that shouldn’t be wasted!
When to act and when not to is an art we all should learn. This is a positive thing…
It is not easy to stay calm without reacting inside or outside, as our senses control us. But practising this leads to the great discovery of one’s true self!
